I have been thinking about how I can enter into these writings and think critically without being dismissive and snobby towards other people's thinking. I think it all has to come down to grace. As I read a piece on homosexuality or any other hot button issue, I need to enter into this reading with grace. I believe a certain way and the author of the piece believes a certain way. Instead of tearing down the person who wrote the article, I need to ask questions of the text. Questions about whether or not I agree sure, but also questions like what is the motivation of this article. Where does this person come from when writing it? What are the points that are made that are wise? What can I learn from this piece that isn't just what are the points I need to tear apart, but what can I learn to be more understanding of this person's camp? How can I learn to be more empathetic to other people's worldviews?
Therefore, as I think about ways to respond to articles that are contrary to my way of thinking, I am going to try to be empathetic and try to enter into a dialogue with the author (using the text) to better understand myself and this other person. It does no good for me to dismiss their thinking because it is different, but it also does no good to hurl insults. The best way to become a better person is to read this article with grace as the lens through which I come up with a response. This is what I am working on. How to read and have conversations with people from other camps to become a more understanding person and to understand what wisdom is there that I may dismiss otherwise because it is nestle in thoughts I don't agree with. In other words, I am trying not to be offended and reactionary, but empathetic and questioning.
How do you go about doing this? Do you only read things you agree with, or do you branch out? How has reading outside your comfort zone helped you grow as a person?